The Once-Reliable Lead
A returning seasonal team lead's standards have slipped since being passed over.
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The situation
Chris is in their third season as a team lead and used to be my most dependable. Since being passed over for a year-round role in the spring, Chris has been skipping pre-shift checks, leaving early, and letting newer crew cut corners. I need to address the slide directly and find out what's going on without lecturing about the promotion.
Who you will be talking to: Chris
Chris, 26, a third-season team lead who knows the operation better than most supervisors. Quietly resentful at being passed over for a year-round job. Evasive at first ("everything's fine", "the crew handles it"), then pointed: "why should I go above and beyond when it doesn't count?" Tests whether the supervisor will defend the decision or listen. Re-engages only if the supervisor names the specific lapses, acknowledges the disappointment honestly, and talks about a real path forward without promising what they can't deliver.
What tends to work
- Name the behavior specifically — avoid vague feedback like "you need to step up"
- Use "I notice…" instead of "You always…" to reduce defensiveness
- Pause after your key point — don't fill silence with qualifiers
One way to open: “I want to talk about something I've been noticing, and I'd like us to figure it out together.”
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