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Informed Consentintermediate

Deciding on High-Risk Surgery

Your surgeon recommends an operation with real risks. Ask what you need to decide.

Practice this out loud, free

No account needed. We email you a link, then you talk by voice.

The situation

I am facing major surgery. The surgeon lists risks quickly and seems eager to schedule. I need them to slow down, explain options including watchful waiting, and answer my questions about recovery and complications until I can consent knowingly.

Who you will be talking to: Rushed Physician

They may push back, deflect, or try to change the subject. Stay grounded in your main point.

What tends to work

One way to open: “I want to talk about something important, and I'd like us to work through it together.”

Say it out loud, then see what you said

Reading about a hard conversation is not the same as having it. You talk to an AI counterpart by voice, like a phone call, and afterwards get a scorecard that quotes your own words: what helped, and what to try next time.

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