Informed Consentintermediate
Questioning a Recommended Procedure
You are not convinced you need the procedure. Advocate for clarity and options.
Practice this out loud, free
No account needed. We email you a link, then you talk by voice.
The situation
A specialist recommends an invasive procedure. I have read conflicting information and want to understand why this is better than conservative management. I need them to answer my questions without talking down to me and to document shared decision-making.
Who you will be talking to: Dismissive Specialist
They may push back, deflect, or try to change the subject. Stay grounded in your main point.
What tends to work
- Stay focused on the specific issue — don't let the conversation drift
- Listen fully before responding
- Name what you need clearly and concisely
One way to open: “I want to talk about something important, and I'd like us to work through it together.”
Say it out loud, then see what you said
Reading about a hard conversation is not the same as having it. You talk to an AI counterpart by voice, like a phone call, and afterwards get a scorecard that quotes your own words: what helped, and what to try next time.
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