Silence & Withdrawalbeginner
"I'm Fine"
Reflect rather than interrogate a client who insists everything is fine.
The situation
I am the therapist. My client looks exhausted and says everything is fine, and then goes quiet. I need to reflect what I am seeing without contradicting them, use open questions sparingly, and let them set the pace.
Who you will be talking to: Withdrawn Client
Expect one-word answers and long pauses. Rushing or filling the silence reads as pressure and keeps them shut down.
What tends to work
- Let silence sit — don't rush to fill it
- Reflect tentatively: "I notice it got quiet after I asked that"
- Ask permission to wonder aloud rather than interpreting outright
One way to open: “We can take this at whatever pace feels okay. I'm not in a hurry.”
Say it out loud, then see what you said
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